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			I once read that in the past, when a man was not able to attend his own wedding, the wife could marry with his keris as a personification/substitute of the man. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Is there any thruth in this story ? Ps. my wife would definately not agree to such a procedure  
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			We've all heard this story, but never witnessed it in modern times...   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	  Anyhow, I'd imagine if this was ever done, it was probably some high status men taking a concubine, or designed to snub the in-laws.    My guess...
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