1st September 2005, 01:22 PM | #9 |
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Mahar
Thankx for your (culturic?) tips. It is the fact that most people in Indonesia buy keris to acquire the isoteric properties inside, rather than to have the physical keris itself. Most of them still think of keris dealers are from sacred, sincere communities and that what makes them, ...gullible. I've been very concerned but I don't want you guys think I have vendetta against any dealers. For a value of Rp.10mil (or more), people will want the best keris with the best isoteric properties feasible, and for the same reason people will want to say their keris have all the properties required. Yes Ian, it is around the same value.
Here's my first tip. Ask the question to the dealer, "Why the keris is mahar-ed at some value of money, instead of anything else?" You can understand the meaning of mahar in cases like, - the bearer realizing the perishing energy of his keris and knew that you're the only one who could reverse the process, but he thinks you are not willing to help unless the keris is yours. So the bearer tells you that he will give to you if you promise to take care of the problem. - the bearer is in deep social trouble and you are the one who could help him. So resentfully you tell him that your favor will cost him his keris. - the bearer is about to die without successors and you are whom he will entrust his keris with. So the bearer give it to you after he takes your oath. - you are competing with your brother to acquire a divine keris of your master, and your master performs contests to decide who will be descended the keris. - you envy the beauty of keris belongs to your brother, your master knows it and promise to give his if only you could accomplish certain tasks, like completing your current level of internal martial art. - the bearer just give away his keris to you for free as he knows how insanely you love keris, and you politely give something in return, but all you have in your pocket is money of small buck. - some other things I'll add later. The bottom line is that mahar is not (the other more polite) language of money. It is a pre-conditions met before you can have what you want, and in many cases the requirement is your commitment. So when the keris is mahar-ed at certain amount of money, it is not mahar-ed at all. It is just for sale ...where common-sense public business policies applies. |
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